Get Your Sexy Back: How To Lead A Healthy And Responsible Sex Life

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Sex is an everyday occurrence and something that all women take seriously. Even if men think otherwise, ladies like to have a healthy sex life just as much as any guy. And, it is for that reason that sexual health is an important topic. After all, the rise of sexually transmitted diseases and unprotected sex is on the rise around the world. Of course, no one wants to limit the fun because of the health dangers, but they are real. As a result, it’s essential that you take your sex life as seriously as possible and don’t mess around. You know? In the metaphorical sense!

With that in mind, you might want to know what you can do to cover all the bases. If that is the case, you have come to the perfect place. Underneath are the best ways to lead a healthy and fulfilling sex life that is also responsible.

Don’t See It As A Taboo

In the past and to this day, women have to battle with the stigma of being sexually active. It’s as if females can’t enjoy a good time without being branded a horrible name. Although the name calling does still exist, you shouldn’t let it put you off speaking out about your encounters. Yes, some people might decide to judge, but they are not real friends. The people you care about will listen and understand. By talking about the topic and not treating it as a taboo, your sexual knowledge will doubtlessly increase. As in every walk of life, knowledge is power, and sex is no different. So, the more knowledge you have, the more likely you are to avoid any nasty illnesses.

Make The Guy Responsible

Women have had to bear the brunt of sexual responsibility for too long, and it’s time for a change. After all, it takes two to dance this particular tango. Sure, you have to be the one who is in charge if you want to be responsible. It only makes sense that you take care of your individual needs. Still, that doesn’t mean that you should be the one to jump through hoops. If the guy in question isn’t prepared, then don’t feel like you need to be a slave to your urges. Instead, inform him he is the one who needs to take care of the contraceptive situation. Otherwise, sex is off the table. Let’s face it; the woman has the power, so it is up to the man to be on the ball.

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Always Be Prepared

Of course, if you have to leave it to a man, you might never have sex again! And, although some women see it as a cop out, you can always be prepared without much fuss. Buying condoms and keeping them in your purse, for example, is a good compromise. After all, they don’t take up much room and they are ready to go whenever the situation arises. Some women also like to stay on the pill even if they are not in a relationship. The second option is one you should think about before committing to wholeheartedly as the pill can affect a person’s hormones.

Try A Semi-Permanent Method

There are popular methods of contraception, but they do not encompass the entire spectrum. Indeed, they are methods that are not as popular but just as effective with better life benefits. For example, there are semi-permanent contraceptives like an implant. A contraceptive implant is perfect for the women that don’t want to bother with the hassle of keeping but a regular routine. Why? It’s because the chip releases small amounts of hormone into the system preventing ovulation and pregnancy. As such, you don’t have to worry about taking a pill every day or buying condoms. Usually, they last for three years, so it is reversible if the plan doesn’t suit your needs. Plus, it is also possible to get it removed sooner than the three-year cycle. Implants are not for everyone, which is why you need to analyze the pros and cons.

Talk To Your Partner

It isn’t only you that has a part to play in your sexual health – your partner does, too. And, they might not be as responsible as you when it comes to their previous exploits. In simple terms, their past encounters could mean their sexual health isn’t very good at the moment, and that puts you at risk. Obviously, you don’t want to get to fourth base to find out afterward that he has passed on an infection, so doing research is essential. To get the lowdown, you need to talk to him and feel him out (not literally). Does he seem like a responsible guy? Do his values pair up with yours? Has he had too many sex partners? It is possible to find this out with a simple conversation. And, once you have the info, you can decide whether the juice is worth the squeeze.

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Get Tested

Even if you use all of the above, there is a chance you might not be as healthy as you would like. Sometimes, the most responsible people make mistakes or fall victim to bad luck, and there is nothing you can do. The only step to take is to go to a clinic and ask a doctor to check your sexual health. Usually, you can get the results in a matter of days or less, and it is all discrete. Plus, general STDs are pretty manageable today, which should make the process less daunting. As a rule, the average person needs to get tested after every encounter regardless of the situation. After all, you never know when bad luck is going to strike.

Every male and female should practice safe sex because sexual health is just as important as your mental or physical health. As long as you follow the advice above, it is possible. You only have to make sure you get into a routine and have a backup plan in place. Then, the chances of anything going wrong will be slim.

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